Communication-Ground-Rules
Let’s have a good basis for this important talk !
Communication is an important ingredient in a relationship. Setting some communication-ground-rules is a good idea to have a good start when you want to communicate effectively.
This way, a lot of relationship problems can be easily avoided!
Here are some relationship-problems-tips and suggestions for setting some communication-ground-rules.
Feel free to set your own communication-ground-rules that work for you.
Communication-Ground-Rules
• Be on time
• Be respectful to your communication partner(s)
• Set a safe space to have your conversation
• Be honest, open and sincere
• Be fully present, stay focussed
• Intent to have a constructive conversation
• Intent to bring lightness and some appropriate fun into the conversation
• Take responsibility for your underlying intentions and issues
• Maintain enough eye contact
• Be conscious to verbal and non-verbal communication as well as intentions
• Take your time to talk and to connect
• When listening, fully listen
• Summarize what you just heard to verify you have received the message
• Ask questions to ensure clarity
• After speaking, verify you have delivered your message
• One conversation at the time (don’t interrupt your communication partner!)
• Tell your truth, and be sensitive to your communication partner’s feelings
• Respect appropriate confidentiality
• Take responsibility for your overall communication
• If you need more time, set another date to continue the conversation
Communication Tip: Ask yourself: Do I have underlying hidden intentions in my communication ? If so, what could be underlying my communication that is messing up my communication?
Find out with this Underlying-Communication-Quiz quickly!
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