Daughter Moving to Another State

by A Concerned Mom
(Michigan)

My 33 yr old daughter met a man and has told me as soon as she finds a job in WI she'll be moving in with her BF of 2 months.

She's kinda known him since 2005 but just recently started talking on Face Book then met in person again this June and they instantly became a couple.

I believe they are in love (the words have been spoken on both sides) and I am so happy for her (she went thru some not so nice guys) but moving only after a few months without me even meeting him?!

I will be meeting him Sunday but how can I judge in one visit?!!

She is selling all her furniture (all hand me downs but still nice) and is just up and moving.

I rarely see her now (she's been at her job 8 yrs with no benefits) but maybe a few days a month. We talk and text all the time.

I tear up at the thought especially when we are together and she gets so mad at me saying I'm giving her a guilt trip and that if I don't stop I'll push her away.

She is my only child but I feel since she's 33 I gotta let her go (not that I could stop her) or I risk losing my only child.

What do I say to her and him when we meet??