Living in Hell since the Age of 16

by Unknown
(Washington DC, USA)

My mother and I have always fussed since I was 16. From that time we have NOT been close.

Living under the same roof is like hell. She would always have something to say whether my shoes dont go with my outfit or my hair doesnt look to good or I need to do this or I need to do that. It was always something.

Then she always had her two cents when it came to the men I dated. Ok she was concerned but at the end of the day im going to do what I want to do.

Here it is in my 30's and STILL fussing back and fourth on the regular. Its exhausting and irritating. This is why I have decided to not really deal with her because its too much.
Im sure I wont really have no contact when I move out. I just need peace and there is no peace in this house. No one can live with her because all she likes to do is fuss fuss and more fuss. Its unbearable.

Its to the point where I dont wanna be around her but dont have a choice because we live together. Its a shame that when im about to walk into the house I am entire mood changes to sh*t because I hate living there. The atmosphere is not healthy.

One thing I hate is arguing and thats all that goes on ALL the time. Its like an argument once week and its uncalled for. When I move I have decided very little contact because its been hell for several years.

People who tend to be unhappy or got issues of there own always try to bring others down and I feel like when she is not getting her way she tends to take it out on me.