Mother-Daughter-Advice needed?

how can i fix my mother daughter relationship 
My mom was never there when i was growing up, and when she was there she was drunk or sent us to the sitter. She always said why do it myself when i can ...

Help, should I disown my Mother who has disowned me twice? 
I really need help on this, It isn't a joke but it sounds strange. My Mother is a controlling woman and is also a snoop. She read my diaries when I was ...

Me: conservative politics, creative, outgoing.
Her: Marxist activist with no tolerance, quiet, introverted 
My daughter is an avowed Marxist who is at the head of the most angry mobs who are picketing for various reasons.

I admire my daughter's passion and ...

How to Understand My Daughter Better? 
My daughter is 15 and she never wants to be in the house.
She lives with her foster parents.
She has permission to stay with me once a week, but when ...

I quit talking to my mother a year ago. How do we repair the damage? 
In June 2010 I was so excited about my mother moving in with me, that I fixed up two rooms and a bathroom for her in my house.
I was excited to make it ...

How to Deal My Irrational Mother Who Doesn't Listen? 
I am getting married in September.
My mother has no money. She agreed to make shawls for my 2 bridesmaids and my future mother in law.

This morning,...

My Mother is Overbearing 
I'm 25, married and working and my mother still expects to see me at least 3 times a week, if not more.

Everytime i mention doing anything with my ...

How to Support a Daughter with a Very Sick Child 
My daughter has a very sick child.
Naturally she is overwhelmed, feels guilty, worn out and tired.

She is highly sensitive and despite my wanting ...

Rejected by My Elderly Mother 
My mother has always been a pretty selfish , self indulgent woman.

Food was strictly limited when I was little, but she always had her weekly box ...

What l do about letting my 22 year come home again? 
Hi!

My 22 year old daughter wants to come home again!

What is the best way to talk to her, without sounding like I'm telling her how she should fix ...

HEART-LESS DAUGHTER 
MY DAUGTER IS NOW 23 AND EVER SINCE SHE LEARNED HOW TO TALK, ALL SHE HAS DONE TO ME IS PUT ME DOWN, LOOK DOWN AT ME, AND EVERYTHING I SAY OR DO IS WRONG ...

How can she not see that he is a monster? 
How can she not see that he is a monster?

I apologise for the novel, this is a really twisted relationship and the people I have talked to have not ...

No question, just to say thanks for your advice and this web site! 
Hi!

Just to say thanx for your advice.
It made a lot of sense to me and now I understand how my mom is struggling herself with her life.

Her mother ...

Is it me or both of us? 
Me and my mom have never really been super close and that’s what I really need to figure out about us.

I suffer from Aspburgers mental disorder...

Terrible, terrible relationship with mother 
I really have very heavy problems in relationship with my mother . It's totally complicated.

All my life I was very close to her. She gave me a lot....

Mother and Daughters Living Worlds Apart in the Same House 
Please help me with my 2 daughters! I have a 17 1/2 yr old daughter, and a 12yr daughter.
They are very different but yet the same. What I mean by this ...

Mom wants to move in. Yikes! Help! 
My mom wants to move in with my boyfriend and me. She isn't sick and has a PhD but for whatever reason "cannot find a job".

I get along ok with her,...

My Daughter is inconsiderate!!! 
I have a very happy and confident daughter.
I also have a older son. There is a 13 year gap. I have 2 grandchildren by my son. He is divorced and a good ...

How to please my mother? 
My mother of 54 recently had a hysterectomy. Before this, she was in pain a lot. I have always done my best to be considerate, help her out and also tried ...

What happened? 
Our daughter is now 20 and still lives at home. She comes and goes as she pleases and disregards most rules.
She only works part time, doesn't feel the ...

Not talking 
I love Jeni, my daughter, but she has cut me out of her life. I have apologized for everything even the things that I am not aware of. Jeni has never ...

I am thirty three years old, at what point can I expect my mother to stop trying to control my life? 
My mother was put in a position to be overprotective at a very early age in my life.

Out of three children I am the only one with a diagnosed mental ...

Am I Asking Too Much? 
I am a 29 year old young woman, mother of 3, stepmother to 2 and married again after a divorce.

I got pregnant at 17 the first time, married my high ...

I Need Advice Badly for Coming Christmas . . .  Not rated yet
Hi,

I am so totally confused by my Mother's behavior that I gave up a long time ago on trying to be anything meaningful to her. I think she may have ...

Devastated!!  Not rated yet
My daughter and I have been very close since it was just the two of us, she is an only child and her father abandoned her. We agree that we are very different ...

A Teenage Daughter is Trying  Not rated yet
I have the best daughter ever.
However, Ii seem to accuse and get angrier with her than anyone.

She has had problems eating disorders, drugs, alcohol ...

Making it clear ?  Not rated yet
How can I tell my mom that she is so wrong while staying polite? How can I get to her, how do I make myself clear?!