My Daughter Treats Me Ugly

by Rose
(New Orleans, LA. 70114)

My daughter and I have always been close. We talk 2 to 3 times a day and sometimes see one another daily.

I've learned that she talks about me and call me ugly names in the present of her young children. I'm very close to the children specially the oldest. He gets very angry when she make comments about me, he often tells me what she have said about me. I often tell him, don't worry, she means well.

She hates the relationship he and I have.
After all he's the first grandchild, he often ask me if he can live at my house!

Today when I learned that she called me stupid, I became angry. When she called me from work, I spoke to her in my regular voice tone about it, she reply and said "you believe what a 10 year old said?"
I said "Yes this child, I do".
That's when she went off on me!
She said "It's a difference when you say that's stupid, or it's stupid. I didn't say you were stupid, it's just a word I use a lot".
She also said "I can't take care of you or help you, I have my boys to take care of".
Now I didn't ask her to take care of me. I told her I'm able to do for myself and if I was to get to the point I can't take care of myself or pay my bills, I would not ask her for anything, I rather eat dry bread before I ask her for anything.

Now get this I have always been there for her and the boys and have been able to help her with the children. Pick them up from school, keep them when she needs to go somewhere, feed them etc. What grandmothers usually do.

I see she wrote something ugly on facebook. She didn't say my name, but it was about family.
"Can finally understand why and how some people can just walk away from their Family/Family members!" and some strong language!!!!

Now after all that was said today between the two of use, I truly believe that facebook message was for me.

What do you think?