My Mother is Overbearing

by Sara
(New Jersey, US)

I'm 25, married and working and my mother still expects to see me at least 3 times a week, if not more.

Everytime i mention doing anything with my in-laws she gets in a huff and makes snide comments.

If she asks me to do something or be somewhere and i already have plans or i don't want to, its a full on FIGHT!
She accuses me of how i don't support her or help, even though i go above and beyond to do just that.

How can i make her understand that i have other responsiblities that take time and that she is not the only person in my life????