Teen-Relationship-Problems :
Do you have happy Teen-Relationships?
Sure, but I can use some Teen-Relationship-Problems Tips . . .
As a teen you are growing and changing and so do your relationships and relationship-problems.
Teenage-Relationship-Problems are not cool, cause relationship problems can make people very unhappy.
With whom do you have relationship problems?
With my girl friend
With my boy friend
With a friend
With a group of friends
With cliques
With my Mom
With my Dad
With my stepfather
With my stepmother
With my sister
With my brother
With a teacher
With my boss at my job
Around dating
With authorities
With being lonely
Around money
With people at school
With . . .?
Less Teenage-Relationship-Problems is more!
What are relationship problems actually?
When people relate to other people, issues may occur.
You may have seen your parents struggling with their relationships
It is part of life
Lets describe Teen-Relationship-Problems as a feeling here:
You dont feel good about the other and the relationship (anymore)
You dont talk enough with the other about things that matter (communication)
You dont feel enough commitment
You dont feel enough respect
You dont feel enough understanding
You lost a good friend
You hate arguments
You dont want to be influenced
Do you want to learn more about teen-relationship-problems now?
Read on . . .
Relationships are a lot of things to different people.
Among of these things, relationships can be a great mirror where you can see yourself.
This is quite a discovery.
Sometimes it's very funny and cool, sometimes just awful or horrible.
Other people mirror you and give you exactly what you are giving them and yourself.
Consider this idea and observe for yourself.
• Teen-Relationship-Problems Tip:
What are you giving of yourself to others and what are they mirroring back to you?
Attention
Kindness
Affection
Coldness
Aggression
Passiveness
Respect
Commitment
Problems
Fun
Friendship
An attitude
Expectations
Other
Just observe for awhile . . .
• Teen-Relationship-Problems Tip:
Ask yourself:
How do I feel in my teen relationships:
At ease, comfortable
Uneasy, uncomfortable at times
Outgoing
Shy
Want to talk
Want to be somebody
Like I belong
Like I dont belong
Have to stick up for myself
Unsure
Irritated
Understood
Connected
Disconnected
Dominant
Quiet
Relationships suck
Other feelings . . .
List all that comes up!
Is it possible to get away from relationships to avoid teen-relationship-problems?
What do you think?
Here is what Id say: Hardly . . . cause people still need to relate to themselves.
That is why a great relationship with yourself is a great start and a must!
To know yourself
To accept yourself
To respect yourself
To know and accept your body, your talents, your strong points and your original outlook on life!
Do you want to be somebody?
Then be somebody, be yourself and know who you are. Relate well to yourself first!
• Teen-Relationship-Problems Tip:
Ask yourself:
What do I know about myself?
My name, age, gender, place were I grew up . . .
What I like, what I dislike
My strong points
My talents
I want to be real
The sports I like
What I want to learn more about
Places I want to travel to and see
What I like to wear, my style
My favourite music
My favourite movies
My favourite food
My favourite internet sites
My outlook on life
What it is what I would like to become
Other . . .
List all that comes up.
Create the list only for you.
You dont have to show your list to anybody if you dont want to.
Maybe you can appreciate all these things that are part of you!
Are you happy with your list?
Did the list give you some insight in who you are, in your self-image?
Find out more about communication . . .
Find out more about commitment . . .
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