What l do about letting my 22 year come home again?

by HELEN
(SARATOGA SPRINGS ,NY)

Hi!

My 22 year old daughter wants to come home again!

What is the best way to talk to her, without sounding like I'm telling her how she should fix things on her own?

She wants to come live with me.
Just untill she can get it together (ya right!!!).

My heart tells me one thing and my gut tells me another.

Not so much wanting to go with the HEART this time around.

Help!!!